All of us go through some really difficult times in life and in the life of our relationships. While we can't control the outcome of life's events, with help and perspective we can often minimize the damage to ourself and to others. Conflict coaching can help us walk through these times, helping us expand the lenses of our understanding. We can define who we want to be as a result of conflict, instead of letting the conflict define us. Conflict coaching helps broaden our perspective, our choices, and our responses. We learn tools and skills that can serve us in other conflicts and be useful throughout our lives.