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What Is Mediation? A Plain-Language Guide and Video Example
Mediation is a confidential, voluntary process where a neutral third party (the mediator) helps people in conflict have the conversation they have been avoiding and reach an agreement they both choose.
The mediator does not decide anything. The mediator does not take sides. The mediator does not give legal advice or tell anyone what to do.
What the mediator does is create the conditions where people can hear each other, understand what is actually at stake, and find a path fo

Kimberly Best
May 78 min read


Labels and Identity and Curiosity: A Mediator's Reflection
Labels have always terrified me. Not the words themselves, but what comes with them: the fear of being mis-seen. Of having someone look at me and see the label instead of me. Of being reduced to a word I never fully agreed to.

Kimberly Best
Apr 189 min read


Why Leadership Development IS Conflict Management Training
U.S. companies spend more than $160 billion a year on leadership development. The global number exceeds $366 billion. That buys a lot of workshops, executive retreats, and 360-degree assessments.
And yet, Development Dimensions International's (DDI) 2024 assessment of more than 70,000 manager candidates found that 49 percent cannot demonstrate effective conflict management skills. Only 12 percent showed high proficiency. That's not a "people problem." That's a skills gap on a

Kimberly Best
Mar 3111 min read


The Message You Meant to Send Never Arrived: How Email and Text Fuel Workplace Conflict
Research shows email tone is misread nearly half the time. Kimberly Best of Best Conflict Solutions, based in St. Louis and working nationwide, explores 20 years of studies on how text, email, phone, and face-to-face communication affect workplace conflict and relationships.

Kimberly Best
Mar 1614 min read
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